Published in Evolve·PinnedNo One’s ObligationAm I Supposed To…Nevermind — Obligation: An act or course of action to which a person is morally or legally bound; a duty or commitment. OBLIGATION English Definition and Meaning | Lexico.com 1 An act or course of action to which a person is morally or legally bound; a duty or commitment. 'he has enough cash…www.lexico.com Morally? But who is to say it's right or wrong? The guilt and shame we attempt to place on others is directly due to our own insecurities. …Advice4 min read
Published in Readers Hope·Apr 27Karma Has No Expiration DateWhat Goes Around Comes Back…Directly To You — As it relates to all of us, whether you believe it to be true or you dare to be different; karma will sweep you off your feet — and maybe drag you off for others. Karma pertains to both the negative and positive things we do and holds no biases…Karma4 min read
Published in ILLUMINATION’S MIRROR·Apr 3Check-In FirstSir/Madam, you may be on the wrong line — The comfort in knowing you have someone to confide in can be all the calm you need after a storm. In some cases, one may not require feedback, no form of response, or any questions answered. Every so often to be heard is all that's needed. In other cases, we…Communication4 min read
Mar 24M.F.T (My Femininity Transfer)Born to submit — Modern or traditional woman? Seems to be the topic of discussion when deciding whether or not a lady is worthy of marriage, and/or if she’ll be successful in it. However, there are many factors that can aid in a woman's defeminization prior to. Masculine and feminine energy have nothing do…Femininity4 min read
Published in Evolve·Mar 5I Know — It’s A SyndromeWe all know a bit much… — “A wise man never knows all. Only a fool knows everything” While noticing consistent patterns and behaviors in different people, my anxiety activates. What is this, and why? No way, it's nowhere near possible that you or anyone knows everything. …Lifestyle3 min read
Published in Writers’ Blokke·Feb 23The Bloodline That Prevents ChangeThere’s always an ultimatum! — There’s always an ultimatum! Not one person is born phenomenal, which confirms everyone has many changes to make. I’d say the easiest part along this journey is getting to know yourself better; to learn what and what does not work for your person. …Change4 min read
Published in Evolve·Feb 10Oh, Why They ShatterDo not give it permanence — When it rains it pours, or as I like to say; it showers. It can’t get any worse tends to be one of many thoughts following a stroke of bad luck. Let us speak on luck briefly; Luck A force that brings good fortune or adversity. Now, I don't believe…The Happy Human3 min read
Published in A Parent Is Born·Jan 31We Needed More Than Love and EnablersIf only love equaled knowledge. — As an adolescent, I was unaware of the importance or influence the role of a parent was; and how it immensely helps or hurts the child in their future. This has become lucid not only because I’m a mom, but because I observe and seek knowledge. I recognize patterns and…Parenting5 min read
Published in What Is Love To You?·Jan 21What Is Love?My kind of love requires — Love is the urgency to make yourself available because there's something your partner needs to get off their chest. It’s open to different ideas and viewpoints even though they may be different from your own. Love is decisive. Love is an ongoing job and it is not one thing, on…What Is Love To You2 min read
Published in New Writers Welcome·Jan 19Let Us Not ConverseBlood Pot at 100° C (212° F) — I learned from watching Oprah Winfrey as she said “When you are arguing with a friend and they act like they can’t hear you because they are arguing so strongly back at you, they really can’t because of the way the brain is structured. …Startup2 min read