How many times does it have to be brought to your attention before you feel the need to rectify it? From trivialities to severities, it is obvious something is not being done correctly, appropriately, etc. Holding yourself accountable and understanding it is “you”, can prevent what it is from repeating. Whether you have a disturbing body odor or a nasty attitude; it is YOU. It would be of dignity to change it. There has been NO reports of proper self-love and/or self-care harming anyone.
Some people manage to stay the same, growing in areas to get them just a tad further in life. Ultimately leaving them tainted from whatever past they have yet grown/healed/learned from. Like someone learning finance and still lacking people skills. How far do you think you will go in life without learning to socialize/communicate with others? And effectively?
All pride needs to be placed aside in order to hear and take in constructive criticism, no matter how serious it may be. It will take someone who is open to change, someone who knows that they do not have all the answers; for them to “take in” what is being said.
Some are not ready for growth, nor do they want or see change. I notice people happen to feel change is needed from everyone but themselves. Those types of people are ignorant, and I could barely spot them. In some ways, you have…
